Growing up, I learned the same lessons about femininity as most others: small, cute, quiet, blah, blah insert Barbie movie monologue here. One of the most damaging things I learned was that women should be submissive. That’s how I started as the typical seductive, nymphomaniac girl of my dreams. I had no idea how far I could stray from that stereotype. Let me tell you about it.
When I first began having relationship sex, I quickly turned to porn as a learning tool. I’d always been a straight-A student, and I wasn’t going to fail at relationship sex. Pornhub’s wealth of content became my curriculum. I studied how women contort their bodies, the sounds they make to be considered sexy during lovemaking, and how to wear their hair and makeup. I studied her cock-sucking strategies: how much spit to use, how often to make eye contact, and how to stroke the balls “correctly.” I practiced deep-throating with different vegetables. I analyzed the site’s algorithm and found, without much effort, that the most popular videos featured submissive women with only one goal: to satisfy their men.
Since then, I’ve become an expert at pleasing men. Good girl. I was a mascara professional with a shy smile. But I had a dirty little secret: I didn’t enjoy in-relationship sex. I enjoyed the validation and praise as much as my impeccable credentials, but my orgasms were all fake. This was in-relationship sex, I thought: a performance. And in the eyes of my admirers, I was a star. Sex in relationships became stressful and no longer fun. I felt broken. None of my relationships lasted more than 3-4 months because, during that time, the praise I received from them lost its luster and novelty. Then I moved on.
These days, I’m good at bossing people around. Of course, I always value the safety and boundaries of my subordinates. But once those are established, it’s a wild ride where I’m the captain. You’d better buckle up, Buttercup. Although I am not sexually attracted to men in romantic relationships, I thoroughly enjoy the joys of being a Mistress. I love to be worshiped. I expect my commands to align with my Beta’s wishes. Power is my favorite drink.
Of course, I also welcome buyers who just like vanilla and want to enjoy the smell and taste of my sweet pussy or the sweaty soles of my feet. But what about true betas who want to please me? Those are my favorites.
I don’t want to insult any submissive women here. At the end of the day, my girlfriend is a submissive and I love her with all my heart. My intention is simply to bring attention to the power of choice. I sincerely hope that every submissive woman chooses to give up control because it fulfills and excites her, not because it is expected.
I am forever grateful for my experience as a submissive because I believe it has made me a better Dom. I understand what it is like to be on the other side of the equation and how vulnerable it is to give up control. I am also grateful to this amazing community for deepening my understanding and appreciation of fetishes. We love how helpful sellers are to each other, and we have a lot of great buyers who appreciate the divine magic of women. Good luck destroying your own Pornhub textbooks, and we hope you enjoy bringing your fantasies to life, no matter how unconventional they may be.
